Davidfarrow’s Weblog

June 24, 2009

From the State: E-Mails From Argentina

Filed under: Uncategorized — davidfarrow @ 10:53 pm

“I feel a little vulnerable because this is ground I have never certainly never covered before – so if you have pearls of wisdom on how we figure all this out please let me know… In the meantime please sleep soundly knowing that despite the best efforts of my head my heart cries out for you, your voice, your body, the touch of your lips, the touch of your finger tips and an even deeper connection to your soul.”
Mark Sanford e-mail

Read the whole story here:
http://www.thestate.com/sanford/story/839350.html

Breaking News: Statements by Jennie Sanford and others

Filed under: Uncategorized — davidfarrow @ 9:16 pm

Statement from First Lady Jenny Sanford:

I would like to start by saying I love my husband and I believe I have put forth
every effort possible to be the best wife I can be during our almost twenty
years of marriage. As well, for the last fifteen years my husband has been fully
engaged in public service to the citizens and taxpayers of this state and I have
faithfully supported him in those efforts to the best of my ability. I have
been and remain proud of his accomplishments and his service to this state.

I personally believe that the greatest legacy I will leave behind in this world
is not the job I held on Wall Street, or the campaigns I managed for Mark, or
the work I have done as First Lady or even the philanthropic activities in which
I have been routinely engaged. Instead, the greatest legacy I will leave in this
world is the character of the children I, or we, leave behind. It is for that
reason that I deeply regret the recent actions of my husband Mark, and their
potential damage to our children.

I believe wholeheartedly in the sanctity, dignity and importance of the
institution of marriage. I believe that has been consistently reflected in my
actions. When I found out about my husband’s infidelity I worked immediately to
first seek reconciliation through forgiveness, and then to work diligently to
repair our marriage. We reached a point where I felt it was important to look my
sons in the eyes and maintain my dignity, self-respect, and my basic sense of
right and wrong. I therefore asked my husband to leave two weeks ago.

This trial separation was agreed to with the goal of ultimately strengthening
our marriage. During this short separation it was agreed that Mark would not
contact us. I kept this separation quiet out of respect of his public office and
reputation, and in hopes of keeping our children from just this type of public
exposure. Because of this separation, I did not know where he was in the past
week.

I believe enduring love is primarily a commitment and an act of will, and for a
marriage to be successful, that commitment must be reciprocal. I believe Mark
has earned a chance to resurrect our marriage.

Psalm 127 states that sons are a gift from the Lord and children a reward from
Him. I will continue to pour my energy into raising our sons to be honorable
young men. I remain willing to forgive Mark completely for his indiscretions and
to welcome him back, in time, if he continues to work toward reconciliation with
a true spirit of humility and repentance.

This is a very painful time for us and I would humbly request now that members
of the media respect the privacy of my boys and me as we struggle together to
continue on with our lives and as I seek the wisdom of Solomon, the strength and
patience of Job and the grace of God in helping to heal my family.

Representative Nikki Haley (R-Lexington) released the following statement regarding Governor Sanford’s press conference:

“While Governor Sanford and I have long shared a political philosophy, today’s revelations go well beyond politics. This is a tragic situation for the Sanford family and for our state. My prayers are with the Sanfords, and in particular with Jenny and the boys, and I will do anything I can to help them through this ordeal.

“My work in the General Assembly and in my campaign for governor has always been centered on bringing trust and accountability back to government. One component of that is treating taxpayer dollars responsibly and changing the structure of state government so it is accountable to taxpayers. Governor Sanford has been a champion of those principles, and I admire his efforts in those areas. However, another component is behaving in a manner that allows people to trust in their public officials and feel good about their government. Obviously, the Governor has fallen far short in that regard and that is extremely unfortunate.

“I will continue to bring my message of trust and accountability to the people of our state over the weeks and months ahead. More importantly, I hope to be able to help heal the wounds that have been created in South Carolina by today’s news.”

STATEMENT BY SENATE MAJORITY LEADER HARVEY PEELER

Columbia, SC – June 24, 2009 – South Carolina Senate Majority Leader Harvey Peeler (R-Cherokee) issued the following statement today:

“I’m deeply disturbed that NO ONE knew where Governor Sanford was over the last five days. He left the country and deliberately made himself unavailable without delegating power to the Lt. Governor. In the process he misled his staff who unknowingly misled the public. These actions could have had drastic consequences in the case of an emergency. We cannot let the Governor’s personal life overshadow his public responsibility, or in this case, his negligence of gubernatorial authority.”

STATEMENT BY SENATE MAJORITY LEADER HARVEY PEELER

Columbia, SC – June 24, 2009 – South Carolina Senate Majority Leader Harvey Peeler (R-Cherokee) issued the following statement today:

“I’m deeply disturbed that NO ONE knew where Governor Sanford was over the last five days. He left the country and deliberately made himself unavailable without delegating power to the Lt. Governor. In the process he misled his staff who unknowingly misled the public. These actions could have had drastic consequences in the case of an emergency. We cannot let the Governor’s personal life overshadow his public responsibility, or in this case, his negligence of gubernatorial authority.”

A Damn Shame

Filed under: Uncategorized — davidfarrow @ 8:51 pm

Mark Sanford is an honorable man shot down by his own best intentions.Whether you agreed with him or not, he truly believed that he was doing right by the people of the South Carolina and the country. I fear his career is over and I am heartbroken because I kinda hoped he would be the next big thing. Well, he has but certainly not in any way he wanted.

I spoke with a couple of people who know him well, men who admire the man and adore what he stands for, as his face was flashed on the news for the better part of two hours.

One fellow wrote me, “Who’da thunk it? Mark must be like Iran…ruled by nuts! I would venture a
guess that key members of his staff will resign after being hung out to dry, that is, if they have any personal pride and I would further venture that Mark will not be far behind. His unpopular political stances based on principle would in the future have a somewhat hollow ring especially with the sanctimonious set of politicians in the state house. It was really a wrenching sight to behold.”

Another guy put a totally different spin on it.

“Unlike women would have you believe, men don’t stray unless they are forced to,” he told me. “There has to be something missing, a wide gap that cannot be filled for whatever reason.”

I agree. I was married for 19 years. I won’t cast blame, but I felt totally empty inside for six years. It is a desolate place — the scrub barrens of the psyche. It is a place that threatens to take over like the dust bowl enveloping your senses clogging your mind with its painful grit.

You will do anything to escape the deadness.

The talking heads are yapping about sexual addiction. I would argue that they should have been talking about craving affection.

Add to that, two stunning defeats and little sympathy from all quarters and a political career and a marriage lie in tatters.

That sucks.

What could have been the brass ring is now a crushed beer can in the Patio parking lot.

Just keep in mind that beer cans can be recycled.

Unfortunately, the media, local, state and national have become piranha, and the state legislators are licking their lips. Like hyenas surrounding a lion, they will take chink after chink. I do not believe Mark will serve as governor much longer.

The only thing that made me smile (cynically, mind you) was hearing former Sanford press secratary Will Folks being interviewed on Fox. It just goes to show that if you hang on long enough…

I am saddened by that. I think Mark Sanford was the best governor we had in the last century. The legislature, the federal government and the press tried to ridicule him because he stood up for his principles.

Mark Sanford will go down in history. Sadly, he will also go down in flames.

Elizabeth: Gettin’ hitched in the U.S.

Filed under: Uncategorized — davidfarrow @ 2:43 pm

(Editor’s Note: I’ve gotten some pretty cranky e-mails about Elizabeth’s views. By now, you should have figured out that I disagree with almost every thing she says. The e-mail that got to me most was somebody demanding that I not post her work. That’s the way to dialogue, all right. E. shall be one of the regular columnists in thecharlestontimes.com. While I do not stand by her views, I certainly stand by her right to express them).

My favorite line about the gay marriage argument is, “hey, if they want to be as miserable as us, let ‘em get married!” This coming from a happily (on most days) married woman…For shame. Seriously, though, who are we to argue with the Declaration of Independence? I know we are all familiar with this one: “We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of happiness.”

Seems the conflict would end right there–at the period of that oh so powerful sentence. How can it be any clearer? We all have the same rights—no matter what color we are; no matter who we choose to spend our life with.

Back in 1967, Chief Justice Warren said of the Supreme Court case Loving v Virginia, “The freedom to marry has long been recognized as one of the vital personal rights essential to the orderly pursuit of happiness by free men.”

Amazing that 42 years ago, an inter-racial couple who wanted to be married had to take their case all the way to the Supreme Court. I think it’s fair to say that most of us would find that difficult to believe today—how could there have been an issue with two people of different races finding love and desiring the right to be married? Preposterous. What a shame, then, that as ‘progressive’ as this country claims to be, there is still an (enormous) issue with two people of the same sex finding love and desiring the right to be married.

I am heartened that our new President is doing his damndest to knock down these barriers of discrimination for all of my gay friends. Just last week when Mr. Obama signed a memorandum expanding federal benefits for many same-sex partners of Foreign Service and executive branch government employees, he said, “But this Presidential Memorandum is just a start. Unfortunately, my Administration is not authorized by existing Federal law to provide same-sex couples with the full range of benefits enjoyed by heterosexual married couples. That’s why I stand by my long-standing commitment to work with Congress to repeal the so-called Defense of Marriage Act. It’s discriminatory, it interferes with States’ rights, and it’s time we overturned it.” (applause…)

I can only imagine how sweet that must sound to the thousands (millions?) of homosexual couples who have been commited to each other for so many years; that they may, one day soon, enjoy the same rights and benefits of every other married couple in this country.

One day we will do justice to the Declaration of Independence.

Got to keep on walking…

Filed under: Uncategorized — davidfarrow @ 12:34 pm

Governor Missing
Drudge Report
5:04 pm
6/22/09

Where in the World is Governor Sanford?
http://www.thestate.com/news-extras/story/837466.html
9 pm 6/22/09

** High Priority **

I wanted to pass along the following update regarding the governor’s location.

The governor is hiking along the Appalachian Trail. I apologize for taking so
long to send this update, and was waiting to see if a more definitive idea of
what part of the Trail he was on before we did so.

I want to emphasize that this isn’t something that either staff or Mrs. Sanford
is concerned about. As we said earlier today, it isn’t unusual for the governor
to be out of pocket for several days after the legislative session. We knew he
would be difficult to reach, and that he would be checking in infrequently.
Given the media attention this has generated, we’ll obviously update you once we
have some more specifics to pass along.
Joel Sawyer
Communications Director 6/22/09
Office of Gov. Mark Sanford
10:05 pm

** High Priority **
Governor Sanford called to check in with his Chief of Staff this morning. It
would be fair to say the governor was somewhat taken aback by all of the
interest this trip has gotten.

Given the circumstances and the attention this has garnered, the governor
communicated to us that he plans on returning to the office tomorrow.

Joel Sawyer
Communications Director
Office of Gov. Mark Sanford

9:38 am 6/23/09
Here’s the story from The State:
http://www.thestate.com/local/story/836552.html

Then it turns out he might be naked. I’m not making this up.
http://www.palmettoscoop.com/2009/06/23/sanford-may-have-been-naked-hiking/I’m sure the governor can explain all this. I hope he can. I’m a big fan.

I say this as a former husband, not a pundit. You better hope the first words out of your wife’s mouth aren’t, “Honey, we need to talk.”

BREAKING: Just when you thought it couldn’t get any stranger, WIS-TV is reporting that the governor has just returned from Argentinia:

http://www.wistv.com/Global/story.asp?S=10579393

Of course he has. What were we thinking?

DEVELOPING…

Blog at WordPress.com.